Birthday Boy

Somehow starting Sunday, The Grizzly Kid and I have a two year old.

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Toddler-hood has begun and from what we have experienced so far it is a hoot and a bag of mixed emotions for us all. Wallaby can go from laughing to crying in seconds flat, he says the best and most random things, he is constantly learning, he is slowly becoming more adventurous/willing to leave our side, and he has the most tender disposition.

We love each day with him, so here is a preview of what you’re missing:

  • He is in love with all things planes, trains, and automobiles.

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  • Not to mention Legos.
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  • He is kind of OCD. Certain toys go together, he insists his parents make their bed in the mornings, etc.
  • Wallaby is a total social butterfly. He takes a while to warm up to people but he hates being alone. When it’s just us he begs to have one of us playing with him at all times, but when his cousins are here we won’t see him for hours.
  • For the longest time he has been repeating the first syllable on each word he says, “may-may” for Mater, “pitz-pitz” for pizza, etc. but he is starting to shift to saying the whole word.
  • He weighs just over 27lbs
  • After living here for months with a dozen cousins to play with he is finally starting to stand up for himself and fight back for toys taken from him.
  • I thought letting his hair grow out would help his crazy cowlick to lay flat. False. Alfalfa for-eeever.

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  • He loves music, it’s the first thing he requests when we get in the car. Favorite songs include: “Life is a Highway” and “Real Gone” as seen on the movie Cars, “Everything is Awesome” via the Lego movie, “Woody’s Roundup” from Toy Story 2, and “Do you wanna build a Snowman” from Frozen. I’m sensing a connection… From the non-movie music genre he loves “Edge of Seventeen” by Stevie Nicks–he sings along saying “mmm, baby”. He also enjoys female anthems like R-E-S-P-E-C-T, and Shake it Off.
  • Favorite foods include pizza, popcorn, smoothies, and any type of bread.
  • He sleeps from about 7:30pm to 6:40am and takes a two-ish hour nap each afternoon.
  • Batman is his favorite super hero

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  • But he may get that from his dad…

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  • My favorite thing he has started to say is “oh, nanks” (oh, thanks) after I get him some food or a toy. And if you explain something to him he say, “oh” like he really gets it.
  • He loves to help cook and lately has been insisting that I need a chair at the counter too no matter how many times I explain that I am tall enough to not need one.
  • Wallaby will beg to be read a hundred books a day, he’ll cry if we go past the library without going in, and sometimes he even wakes up early but reads quietly to himself.

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  • Hiking is one of our favorite activities, although that last 4 mile hike was a bit too long for him to be in the hiking backpack, plus it felt more like 8 miles since I was packing an extra 27lbs of Wallaby … we’re slowly building up our endurance.
  • He is usually sweet as can be

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  • unless he doesn’t get his way. Like the time Dad wouldn’t go downstairs to pick up his sippy cup that was about a foot away from him.

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  • When I ask him what he wants for his birthday he usually answers “cake”. Good choice. I think I might attempt a Lego cake… I’ll be lucky if it looks that good.
  • When I hint that he might possibly be getting a bike for his birthday he says “pink bike?”. So I hope he won’t be too disappointed when it’s red ; )

Mostly we have lots of fun navigating Wallaby’s new found sense of well everything–he wants freedom, control, choices, etc. He’s learning who he is and we’re just here to help him on his way, I pray we’re doing this parenting thing right, but so far no regrets. Happy Birthday Wallaby!

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A Phase Broken (I hope).

Sunday, the fifth of October, 2014.

The fateful day when young Wallaby’s most prized possession met its demise.

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The phrase “loved to death” is no exaggeration here. This binky had been used until it split in two. We knew the time was fast approaching when we wanted to do away with the binky anyway, so at the first sign of a crack we started preparing Wallaby with the idea that the “binky fairy” (The Grizzly Kid’s idea) will come once the binky was broken and replace it with a toy and the broken binky will be fixed by the fairy and given to a baby that needed it more and that Wallaby would then be a big boy.

A thorough tale, and it worked, in part. On the day it broke Wallaby got his toys (Lucy and Emmet lego figures–which he LOVES) and he really hasn’t mentioned the binky since, but that didn’t make it any easier to soothe himself to sleep without the object he has had since day one.

The first night was ten minutes of crying before he fell asleep, and subsequent nights have been mostly tear free. Naps, however, have been a different story. Interesting how the lack of naps for almost two week has correlated with the fact that I have accomplished very little, including blog posts. Wallaby used to love naps, he would sign and say, “nap please!” and fall right asleep, but without the binky he would simply cry and we would try to soothe, read, sing, but no nap came, except for a couple short car naps. Until this past Thursday when we put on our firm parent caps and decided that it had become a battle of wills, and we could help learn to sleep if he would only stay in bed to do it! So The Grizzly Kid put Wallaby down for a nap and then sat outside his door and every time he came out he put him back in. After about 15 minutes of playing door guard and another 10 minutes of Wallaby crying in bed he was out and slept for 2 hours! The poor exhausted boy. On Friday it was my turn and he didn’t come out of the door once, but he did cry for 10 minutes before falling asleep.

Now we have a toddler who naps without a binky, and while it is hard to have him cry before naps when he used to fall asleep peacefully, he is so much happier after naps whereas on the no nap days our house was a toddler terror zone by 3pm.

So that’s the tale of the binky’s demise. Hopefully, things keep going well around nap time and I wish all you other parents happy nap times too.

A Camping First

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I grew up camping. After all, who puts 10 kids in a hotel when they can let them run around the woods, my parents were smart, so, for the most part, when we traveled we camped. For the most part I loved camping, even the few times we got flooded out it made for good stories later. Then for two summers during college I worked at Philmont Scout Ranch where I literally lived in a tent the entire summer and those are some of my fondest memories.

Wallaby on the other hand was almost 2 and had never been camping! An overnight camp out with the grandparents and a couple of cousins was just what he needed, the perfect trial run. Not that I worried about him enjoying himself—he prefers being outside to anything else. Sadly, The Grizzly Kid had to work, but that meant that Wallaby and I could travel light and bunk together in my 2 man tent.

Friday we headed for the pine trees of Arizona (they do exist) and ended up camping right here around 7,ooo feet in elevation, so the temperature was gorgeously cool—something I had been desperately missing here in the valley. Wallaby was in heaven the second we got out of the car.

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While the rest of us got the tents set up and gear unpacked, the boys got right to exploring the woods and getting dirty.  Exhibit A: A boy and his pile of dirt, happy as can be.

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My oldest nephew even brought a hammock to set up. Which was thoroughly enjoyed by all, don’t let that stoic face fool you, Wallaby was in love and wanted to do nothing but climb in and out and swing in it—maybe we need one for the backyard.

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Look at this dirty face, and I mean that literally since he face planted in the dirt. A couple of times. Also note the pink mark on his forehead where he hit a dirt clod.

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It took him a while to get used to the rougher terrain, but he didn’t fall at all on day two. For dinner we used a tiny camp stove for a single pot of chili to pour on fritos, which is probably my favorite camp meal. I know that tin foil dinners are more traditional, but too much work and they always end up taking longer than expected—I’d rather spend my time exploring.

We ended the day with the classic campfire and s’mores. Worn out, Wallaby and I fell asleep shortly after dark—who wears a watch in the woods?—cuddled up in flannel pajamas and sleeping bags. I awoke a while later to the sound of heavy rain splattering the tent and wind pulling leaves from the tree branches, slid Walt back onto his pillow, felt around for leaks or puddles, and fell back asleep. And repeated that every time the rain started up again. I did wake once to elk calling nearby—our only encounter with any wildlife.  Otherwise an uneventful night. We woke in the morning to deep gray clouds and more rain, but with a couple of cars and some snacks we made a morning of it in the tent in a perfect pile of blankets and pillows.

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Thankfully the rain ended and we ventured out for the best childhood breakfast, personal sized cereal boxes, donuts, and hot chocolate.

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It was a chilly morning, but little Arizona man is not used to wearing layers and kept tugging at his long selves, and did  not want to wear a coat. To get him to put the hat on took bribery, flattery and then immediate distraction in the form of sugary cereal. In fact the hat stayed on his head for about as long as it took him to finish off that box. I did manage to snap about a hundred photos of him in it during that time. This one being my favorite.

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We played for a couple of hours and wanted to stay longer but the clouds looked threatening, so we packed up and headed out to have a picnic at Montezuma’s Castle which was only about 30 minutes from our campsite. The drive down from the mountains was beautiful and the giant groups of yellow wildflowers were surreal.

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After a lunch with begging squirrel we took the short walk around the remains of the Sinagua  peoples’ hard work.

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I even managed to not only get in a photo with Walt, but he even smiled for the camera!

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After the short tour we headed home, but the rain clouds caught up to us, making 2pm look like sunset, and the rain was so heavy in parts that cars were pulling off the freeway waiting for it to clear.

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It still blows me away, even with all the rain we have been having, that Arizona can be this green with a vegetation made up of sage and saguaro cacti.

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It was a lovely short trip. I enjoyed exploring a new area and seeing Walt enjoy camping so much. Hopefully the next camping trip will be soon!

Flood Day

It’s officially a magical day. At least, for our family it is, because we are stuck at home safe and dry together despite the massive flooding that happened all over Arizona last night.  “The National Weather Service recorded 2.99 inches of rain by about 7 a.m., breaking the old record of 2.91 inches set in 1933.”(abc news) The freeways are closed, as are most of our local roads, so The Grizzly Kid called in to work and we get to play today instead.

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This is what most of the roads around us looked like this morning, and here is the view down the other side of the road, a ditch that is usually nothing but dust.

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The best though, was waking up this morning and looking out the window to the park across the street. The park usually looks like this, where we had our Easter egg hunt, and note the slope behind Wallaby.

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But the park instead looks like this with at least 4 feet of water covering the basin.

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The entire school district closed for flooding so we saw kids out in droves today playing in every new pond around the neighborhood.

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My favorite though, was this guy, he made me wish I had a little boat too.

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I love a day where something extraordinary happens and the whole world stops.

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I love the 74 degree weather this storm brought, because we won’t see temperatures like that for another month. Wallaby loved getting to go to the playground during the middle of the day *gasp!*

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Wallaby has even started pulling his superhero figures back into their toy house because it is too “hawt” outside. Apparently that’s something he has heard a lot this summer. But today is different.

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So we play and we puddle jump

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and we hope for another amazing, world stopping day real soon.

 

Toddler Bag

I thought about labeling this post, Carry it Yourself, but that sounds a little harsh. What I mean to say is that Wallaby is 20 months old today! And as such an advanced little creature he can certainly pull some of his own weight. I mean, he picks up his toys, and puts his dishes in the sink (sometimes), so why am I still hauling a diaper bag? Our little toddler doesn’t need much on little trips, a diaper, wipes, and water bottle (an Arizonan necessity), and maybe a snack for a longer trips. Sometimes I shove these things in my purse, but I hate when a diaper falls out while I am trying to find my wallet.

The solution to all our problems presented itself by way of his own little backpack! And boy did I start out with grand plans, like this adorable bag, but decided to scale way back, since I wanted it ready before our upcoming trip to Utah. So instead I used this super simple tutorial on making a drawstring bag, and it only took 15 minutes to whip it up and Wallaby LOVES it so win, win!.

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Can you guess which parent spotted this fabric at the store while I was looking for dress material? And once Wallaby saw it he got excited pointing at R2-D2 and said beep, boop, beep, boo, and it was decided.

And now he puts everything in it, like legos

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and can even put it on himself! If you count this attempt

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Overall it’s a good fit, took less than half a yard of fabric to make and will work until I can make the other backpack. Besides, who needs pants when you are wearing a backpack?

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California Vacation Part 1

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I finally have our bags unpacked and the last of the vacation laundry put away, so I thought it high time to post about our adventures. With my sister’s wedding set for June 21st in San Diego, we figured it was the perfect excuse to go over a few days early and stay with our closest cousins who just so happen to live in San Clemente, mere minutes walking distance from the beach. And what wonderful hosts they were! We didn’t have to worry about a thing.  They have a little boy just 2 month younger than Wallaby and the two of them got on splendidly! Less than an hour after our arrival we hit the beach and the weather was fine and the water was warm—I was fully expecting the vast ocean water to be freezing.

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Wallaby was a natural beach bum. He ran straight for the waves and giggled like crazy when they would try to sweep him away.

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We already knew he loved playing in sand, but beach sand is always the best, so he had extra fun.

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Especially since he had a friend willing to share buckets, shovels, and trucks. These two were so cute together!

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As the tide rose I ferried water back to our higher spot so the boys would still have wet sand. Forced to play in the waves, what a sacrifice.

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We played for a couple hours before we started our beachside bonfire—complete with hot dogs and marshmallows. It was a perfect summer evening. The weather was slightly chill, we had lovely company, and the little ones were well behaved even as it approached bedtime.

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We seriously loved the beach and would have stayed there the whole trip, but we did other fun things as well—the details of which will be saved for future posts, because photo overload already.

18 Months

It happened so fast, and he just keeps on growing! Our Wallaby has hit 1.5 years of age, a time of growing independence, constant movement, goofing around, and emotional break downs daily—usually they’re his … well, mostly.

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Case in point, someone was particularly distraught that his lollipop had gone missing. That was a long 5 minute car ride of distress, after all, Wallaby takes nothing more seriously than his food. He is constantly asking for food, or milk, we’re working hard to get him to drink more water in all this heat, but milk is his favorite. Unless it’s ice, he’d eat ice all day.

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Wallaby also has a new found love of Top Gear as viewed on Netflix. His fascination with all moving vehicles has exploded in the last month, and that coupled with getting to clap along with the crowd, it has become his new favorite. Here he is watching it with The Grizzly Kid.

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We hide from the heat of the Arizona afternoons indoors, mostly, but really Arizona has been good to us. We get out early in the morning and if we do go out in the afternoon we pull out the trusty slip and slide or visit the pool.

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Wallaby loves all things water, he got a special kick out of helping us wash the car yesterday—it was the big event of the day. Early mornings are great for hiking or playing at local playgrounds. Arizona takes teaching the youth about the local flora and fauna very seriously, with parks proudly themed as such.

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Please pet the rattlesnake and the tarantula. Oh, and don’t forget to climb the saguaro cactus too!

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Really though, the weather is always fine in the shade! We hung out on ASU West campus while The Grizzly Kid had a meeting with an adviser. There all fountains all over that campus, some of which have no edge and look just like a splash pad, and not one of them has a no swimming sign. Either their students have great self control or they really don’t care if you wade in seeing as you’ll dry off in a minute—seconds, if in direct sunlight. (We stuck our toes in…)

 

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Wallaby already has a favorite rock on campus to drive cars over and climb on, but nothing beat the fountains I wouldn’t let him dive into.

We’ve been playing hard, despite the 102 degrees we hit today, and simply loving life with with our Wallaby.